【水 漫 开 元】 第 四 期 【故 乡 的 云】（访谈结束，请参与讨论 ）

玫瑰

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原帖由 <I>山民甲</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:51 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438544&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> 谢谢 放心我对克服困难有勇气而且有信心&nbsp;&nbsp; 用强势 嘿嘿到时候请你喝喜酒

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<P>等着呢~嘻嘻~<IMG alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/smilies/PIG3.gif" border=0 smilieid="55"> </P>

Skyarcher

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原帖由 <I>分飞</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:48 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438529&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> 其实还有一点 &nbsp; &nbsp; 就是。随着我们的年龄的增长，父母越来越退出社会角色了，一方面，我很乐意他们可以休息了；另一方面，看到他们突然真的好想老了，我不在身边，看不到他们一点点的变化，也很难过

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<P>其实这是必然趋势,不要说父母,我们不也是一天一天再老去么.所以根本不用难过,因为生活就是这样.</P>
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<P>我觉得休息不休息还是看父母吧.让他们做他们乐意做的事情,这样我觉得他们才会开心,我也会开心.</P>
<P>虽然父母不理解,给孩子自由,让他做自己想做的事情,孩子才会开心.</P>
<P>但是,我是理解的,所以我想让我父母充分享受这自己.不会嫌弃他们思维跟不上时代.虽然我希望他们心态依然年轻.</P>

bigshot

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原帖由 <I>分飞</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:50 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438537&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> &nbsp; &nbsp; 我同意最后一句话~ &nbsp; 猪头~光芒了阿

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玫瑰

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原帖由 <I>steve2046</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:52 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438548&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> &nbsp; 你那玫瑰充数不就得了!

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<P>充什么。。。</P>
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Vongchong

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原帖由 <I>玫瑰</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:42 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438494&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> &nbsp; 呵呵，被人忽视的难过啊？ &nbsp; 我正好相反。我最喜欢听我妈说的一句话就是，忙得都忘了你了。呵呵。 &nbsp; 我希望他们有自己的生活，自己的追求，别老想着我~ &nbsp; 这样，我本身的压力也 ...

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<P>原来我也这么想，在国内的时候，1个月才联系一次。现在到了德国，如果我一个星期没有看到他们，或者给我QQ留言，我就想他们了。</P>
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<P>现在想想，原来的确他们早已适应了我不在他们身边的二人生活哦<IMG alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/smilies/jiao.gif" border=0 smilieid="63"> <IMG alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/smilies/jiao.gif" border=0 smilieid="63"> <IMG alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/smilies/jiao.gif" border=0 smilieid="63"> </P>

分飞

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原帖由 <I>bigshot</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:52 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438547&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> 人生就是由一个一个遗憾组成的珍惜，而不是强求完美

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<P>有些遗憾可以告诉自己是另一种美。。。有些不是~</P>
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分飞

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原帖由 <I>bigshot</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:53 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438554&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> 小样 &nbsp;

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<P>猪样~</P>

Vongchong

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原帖由 <I>fangyue</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:42 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438497&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> 哎，说了一整，没有案情，都是可能性。结婚这事，是不是不能太理论了，应该结合实际

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steve2046

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原帖由 <I>玫瑰</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:53 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438555&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> &nbsp; 充什么。。。 &nbsp; &nbsp;

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<P>一个求妻一个盼夫,你们就凑合了如何?<IMG alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/smilies/jiao.gif" border=0 smilieid="63"> 我算介绍人</P>

fangyue

原帖由 <i>山民甲</i> 于 15.9.2007 00:50 发表 <a href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438540&amp;ptid=198327" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" border="0"></a>
看到父母的苍老 我自己也难过于是急于搜索自己的价值&nbsp; 但是毕业又遥遥无期&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 结婚的压力&nbsp;&nbsp; 结婚就要有孩子&nbsp; 有孩子让我怎么养？&nbsp; 养了孩子怎么毕业？
假如我有一个孩 ...

<br>山民，到时候还有你老婆，两个人，什么都好商量。<br>压力不要太大，多好处想想。<br>