【水 漫 开 元】 第 四 期 【故 乡 的 云】（访谈结束，请参与讨论 ）

山民甲

原帖由 <i>fangyue</i> 于 15.9.2007 00:47 发表 <a href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438522&amp;ptid=198327" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" border="0"></a>
失去了，那就没有结婚对象，可能现在还是考虑什么样的比较合适好些。

<br><br>我经常说<br><br>我超爱美女蛇的<br>

Skyarcher

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原帖由 <I>玫瑰</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:47 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438521&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> &nbsp; 必然的。。。 &nbsp; 等你有了小孩，你的理解会更深刻~

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<P>不用等我有小孩,我写下这段话,就表示我已经理解了.</P>

分飞

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<P><FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #f4f7fb">就是。随着我们的年龄的增长，父母越来越退出社会角色了，一方面，我很乐意他们可以休息了；另一方面，看到他们突然真的好想老了，我不在身边，看不到他们一点点的变化，也很难过</FONT></P>

fangyue

原帖由 <i>bigshot</i> 于 15.9.2007 00:46 发表 <a href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438515&amp;ptid=198327" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" border="0"></a>

男！

<br>恩，赶快贴征婚吧，别忘了这条写进去啊 <br>

Vongchong

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原帖由 <I>玫瑰</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:39 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438474&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> 你说的这种都是目的性的，不算~

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<P>的确，不算。我认识的都不是如此@</P>

玫瑰

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原帖由 <I>山民甲</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:41 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438490&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> 如果我说有&nbsp;&nbsp; 你们怎么样？如果失去了呢？

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<P>遇到了，就赶紧抓好。</P>
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<P>如果害怕失去，那就更得珍惜，并努力不让这种失去发生么。。。</P>
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<P>患得患失，不够勇敢哦~</P>

bigshot

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原帖由 <I>山民甲</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:47 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438524&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> 我不认识 鸟毛 姐姐 另外 露点的电视节目很好看

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<P>不能在河里抓住同一条鱼～～</P>
<P>抓虾也行的</P>
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<P>另，你对电视的要求太低，</P>

Vongchong

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原帖由 <I>山民甲</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:40 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438485&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> 对啊！我就是这个我觉得应该给爸爸妈妈一些安慰不过只能让自己痛苦了

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<P>人并不是完全为自己活的呢。</P>
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<P>其实找个贴心的老婆很好的呢，两个人比一个人要强很多哦！</P>

分飞

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原帖由 <I>bigshot</I> 于 15.9.2007 00:48 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438525&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> 大了，烦恼多了思想远了但是亲情不断爱不一定表达最大的爱就是装着若无其事

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<P>我同意最后一句话~</P>
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<P>猪头~光芒了阿</P>

fangyue

原帖由 <i>分飞</i> 于 15.9.2007 00:48 发表 <a href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438529&amp;ptid=198327" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" border="0"></a>
其实还有一点


就是。随着我们的年龄的增长，父母越来越退出社会角色了，一方面，我很乐意他们可以休息了；另一方面，看到他们突然真的好想老了，我不在身边，看不到他们一点点的变化，也很难过

<br>这里还有个心理适应的过程，等都适应了，就很独立了。<br>