【水 漫 开 元】 第 四 期 【故 乡 的 云】（访谈结束，请参与讨论 ）

分飞

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原帖由 <I>山民甲</I> 于 15.9.2007 01:37 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438835&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> 社会基础在变人的变化是被动的先入为主的以为我们那个年代怎么怎么样 本来就是愚蠢的 世界再向前发展&nbsp; 中国的阶级状况都变了&nbsp; 别说人们脑子里了虚伪少了&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 赤裸裸的多了

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<P>我们总是以自己为标准的要求，评判别人的行为真的是个问题</P>
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山民甲

原帖由 <i>Vongchong</i> 于 15.9.2007 01:40 发表 <a href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438859&amp;ptid=198327" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" border="0"></a>



厉害呢，我过了20才初恋呢。
因为感觉大学前都不是恋爱，只是好朋友而已呢。

<br><br>大学之前的朋友都太熟了<br><br>总有人告诉我某美女尿裤子开裆裤的历史<br><br>泡妞从来不吃窝边草<br>

bushuang

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原帖由 <I>玫瑰</I> 于 15.9.2007 01:37 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438837&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> &nbsp; 离婚不恐怖。我支持离婚。但只是态度，不是做法。 &nbsp; 因为我觉得，大家要对自己的感情负责么，不喜欢了，还在一起，不是折磨么。。。 &nbsp; 所以，结婚也要慎重。。。 &nbsp; &nbsp;

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<P>感情无疑是会变的，传统道德要求的一生一世不太符合人性，但值得去努力，所以考验的不是感情，是双方的智慧。</P>

玫瑰

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原帖由 <I>山民甲</I> 于 15.9.2007 01:34 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438820&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> 哼哼！强调这个才是对既然不稳定&nbsp;&nbsp; 容易变那很容易屈从得

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<P>这个变是深层次的好不。。。</P>

山民甲

原帖由 <i>分飞</i> 于 15.9.2007 01:42 发表 <a href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438865&amp;ptid=198327" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" border="0"></a>


我们总是以自己为标准的要求，评判别人的行为真的是个问题

  

<br><br>玫瑰 听到没有<br><br>要超脱 首先放弃自己&nbsp;&nbsp; <br><br>不放弃自己 条条框框太多了&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 认识自己都很难<br>

山民甲

原帖由 <i>玫瑰</i> 于 15.9.2007 01:43 发表 <a href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438869&amp;ptid=198327" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" border="0"></a>


这个变是深层次的好不。。。

<br><br>但是是决定因素啊！<br><br>舍本逐末有什么好玩的？<br>

玫瑰

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原帖由 <I>Vongchong</I> 于 15.9.2007 01:35 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438829&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> &nbsp; 的确100%的可能性不大，不过，真心一定要放在老婆/老公身上，这是原则哦。 &nbsp; 谈两次足够了，太多了浪费时间，金钱，还有精力呢。大家都老大不小了。一定慎重恋爱呢。嘿嘿

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<P>哦。。。那我只能说，你是强人，呵呵~</P>
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<P>至少，我觉得，每个人的过去会像包袱一样，不压死也压得差不多了。。。</P>

分飞

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原帖由 <I>玫瑰</I> 于 15.9.2007 01:42 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438862&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> &nbsp; 原来分担心自己变。。。 &nbsp; 万事万物无不处于变化之中啊。 &nbsp; 变化是肯定的。所以需要2个人都要去感受对方的变化。并时时互相理解和沟通啊。 &nbsp; 不过，爱情到后来，总归不会一直激 ...

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<P>玫瑰。。。。那爱难道只是心动的才是爱么。。。为什么大家说婚姻都要说，爱会减退，变成亲情</P>
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<P>在日语里，爱情只的是恋爱的情，亲情，友情，都包括</P>
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<P>这个不是才是广义的爱么</P>

bushuang

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原帖由 <I>玫瑰</I> 于 15.9.2007 01:42 发表 <A href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438864&amp;ptid=198327" target=_blank><IMG onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" alt="" src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" border=0></A> &nbsp; 多参加活动，多给自己机会~

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山民甲

原帖由 <i>bushuang</i> 于 15.9.2007 01:43 发表 <a href="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/redirect.php?goto=findpost&amp;pid=1438868&amp;ptid=198327" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.kaiyuan.de/forum/images/common/back.gif" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" border="0"></a>


感情无疑是会变的，传统道德要求的一生一世不太符合人性，但值得去努力，所以考验的不是感情，是双方的智慧。

<br><br>酸文人 要求一生一世<br><br>这个本身就诬蔑了爱情<br>